My
name is Aloysius Maduekesi Ezeonyeka. I was born at a shanty town
called Emene, about five miles from Enugu city (popularly known as
the Coal city). I did not have spiritual and intense religious childhood
of most Catholic saints. On the contrary, I was less concerned about
pious lifestyle and God. In those days, I liked Sundays because they
brought me a sense of freedom. Going to church was a social thing
for me I dressed up in my best attires, hung out with my friends,
and spent sometime outside the church admiring cars and fashions.
For me, catechism was one of those unavoidable burdens of my childhood.
After attending catechism for about six months learning how to recite
Catholic prayers, I discovered that I could not recite the Apostles
Creed properly.
Since this profession of faith is very crucial to the Catholic Faith,
the lady examiner informed me that unfortunately, I would not receive
first communion and confirmation. In the spur of the moment I knew
I had to think and act fast otherwise, I would have to go through
another six months, if not one year of catechetical torture (that
was the way I viewed catechism classes). So I immediately swallowed
my pride and pleaded earnestly with the lady to pass me. I promised
to learn the Apostles Creed on my own if she passed me. The lady
was moved by my humility and gave me a pass. And so it came to pass
that in 1978 I received my first Holy Communion and was confirmed
as a Christian. That was my first stunt. It took me at least a decade
to learn the Apostles Creed. During that, I literally turned my back
on God. But the Person I received on that day of first Communion did
not turn his back on me.
After
many years the business world and being a disc jockey in Lagos, the
biggest and roughest city in Africa, I had a profound experience of
God. God finally found me in 1988 through the Catholic Charismatic
movement. From then I started an intense religious practice that culminated
in my joining the Order of St. Benedict in 1992. My decision to join
the Benedictines sent a shock wave through my family. After joining
the Benedictines I resumed my education. Having done a series of monastic
studies in my community I proceeded to study philosophy at the Dominican
Institute in Ibadan, Nigeria. In the summer of 1998 I travelled to
Dublin, Ireland, to work on a Degree in Theology and Anthropology
at Kimmage Mission Institute. When I returned to my monastery in Nigeria,
I was made the Subprior for three years. During these hectic years,
my main function was the coordination and organization of the Monasterys
affairs. I gave retreats and seminars to individuals and groups, and
I also taught Philosophy and Wisdom literature to young monastic.
The need to explore horizons
and expand the frontiers of knowledge brought me to the United States.
As an explorer, I often put my ears on the ground through meditation
to hear what the Spirit is saying. I am presently pursuing a Masters
Degree in Counseling.